What types of people attract narcissists? [I Want To Spread Narcissism Awareness]

@YoungPoet345 But thanks God you are still young and now know how to avoid those time and life wasters,sadly in my case I can only look back and wish I had done things differently,my narc kept telling me to "forgive and forget"which I did to be abused again and again and to keep being told to "forgive and forget" so that he could abuse me freely,just because he could.If you are still in an abusive relationship,PLEASE get out,do not let the narc emotionally blackmail you,threaten suicide or stalk you,do not give in,life is short and time lost cannot be reclaimed and abuse leave you bruised, remorseful and bitter for having allowed someone to steal the best years of your life and taken away so much from you while they gave NOTHING!

@berangere I am working on getting out now. I told him to pack up his things and get out of my house now. I am staying out of the way in hiding at a family member’s house. It sounds like he’s going to move in with another girl who was very nasty to me and ruin her life instead. I am hoping I can live at my current place in peace. I have strong people backing me. I can eventually change the locks if he doesn’t return the key.

@YoungPoet345 Bravo! This is the way to go,you have good people backing you up,good people no doubt the narc tried to isolate you from but it seems did not succeed,they try to take your friends and family away from you so you have no one to turn to and are at their mercy,totally under their control.Narcissists are evil's foot soldiers,they destroy lives and good people,he may try to get back to you,but he will never change no matter what he tells you,it is called Hoovering,once they know they cannot fool you any more they will leeave you in peace and concentrate on their new victim,because narcs are rarely alone in life the often find a new victim.

@berangere yes, unfortunately it looks like this girl is his new victim. She cursed me out on messenger. She is taking him in immediately. Good luck to her. I hope he does not physically attack her one day.

@YoungPoet345 Sadly that is her problem,but narcs do paint a very bad picture of their ex to their new supply,God only knows what he has told her about you,they are brilliant liars,she will find out in time what he is all about when he starts abusing her,because he will after a while,now he is Mr wonderful to her!

@berangere yes! That’s what he did to me. He told me his ex was awful and took advantage of him. Now I don’t believe a word he ever said to me. He never loved me. He wanted to suck the life from me and leave me to rot to make himself feel powerful.

It’s terrifying to look back at pictures of us too

I am getting rid of all of that

@YoungPoet345 Exactly! An he will do the same to her after their relationship is over,she will be the abusive one and he the victim!

@berangere yes. Precisely.