Those who cannot empathize still want empathy for themselves...

Same person came sniffing around for sympathy again.
After, I said three different times I hope you feel better
I mentioned how I was feeling and my depression which of course again ended the conversation.
Not surprised of course.

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OlderSometimesWiser · F

Many emotional vampires around here. You’re a very kind person but you have to protect your peace, especially at this particularly difficult time in your life.

Livingwell · 61-69, M

Some people will just suck you dry and leave nothing for you. Being kind to these people only encourages them. Protect yourself my friend. 🫂

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@Livingwell I would agree that is the way it is with many people.
I believe this person just doesn't get it and is not trying to be unkind.
I just don't have the energy or ability to be the consoler right now and if they can't give back then I can't give much either as I'm wore out.
They did message me later and say it's hard.(Being depressed)
I only said "yes it is" and that was the end of the conversation.
I have to be polite that's the way I was brought up, but I am only going to give short replies from now on or vague ones.

Livingwell · 61-69, M

@Justmeraeagain You remain true to yourself. I would expect no less. I think you found the right balance. My concern is only for your wellbeing, not to be mean. 🫂

Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

@Livingwell
I do appreciate it ;I don't think that's being mean.

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