I always thought my decisions (or lack thereof) back then was the source of my sadness/loneliness.

I'm now finding that my fault is within me.

My personality
My lack of strength
My lack of principles

Not being my true self.. i always seem to be easily influenced.

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Casheyane · 31-35, F

Try figuring what you want and be assertive about it. Assertive but decent. Just know when to make your stand and let it be know.

It takes the right kind of balance. Being confident enough to do things and exert influence while still being good with just the right amount of humility.

HeadAboveWater · 31-35, MNew

@Casheyane see thats the thing.. i thought i had that all figured out.

But then i find myself in situations where i feel im not doing enough.

Casheyane · 31-35, F

@HeadAboveWater That is why they say happy are the adaptable.

You can't be prepared for everything. What you need to be is adaptable to anything, that come what may, you'll trust yourself to have and to do what it takes to get what you need to do done.

ABCDEF7 · M

Now you know what you need to work on.

Best Wishes

YoMomma ·

No backbone easily swayed?

HeadAboveWater · 31-35, MNew

@YoMomma no its not that. Im a bit layed back in negotiations, avoid confrontations unless its brought to me, etc..

YoMomma ·

@HeadAboveWater oh ok

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