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DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
First off attitude. No, not as you might be thinking about attitude. Yet more like outlook.
You got to want to change, really change, first!
Without it, nothing will help. Even if you are a believer. Belief means outlook as well. That feeling of emptiness will always be with you without a change in attitude.
Once you have the attitude settled, then any of the suggestions here could help.
Yet attitude comes first. Without really wanting something better, no one can help. It's the degree that you want something better. Not just saying so.
Apathy (saying you can't) is your worst enemy BTW.
You can!!!
Hope this helps.
You got to want to change, really change, first!
Without it, nothing will help. Even if you are a believer. Belief means outlook as well. That feeling of emptiness will always be with you without a change in attitude.
Once you have the attitude settled, then any of the suggestions here could help.
Yet attitude comes first. Without really wanting something better, no one can help. It's the degree that you want something better. Not just saying so.
Apathy (saying you can't) is your worst enemy BTW.
You can!!!
Hope this helps.
Stuffy · 61-69, F
@DeWayfarer So you’re saying change the attitude to wanting something better?
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
@Stuffy just that it has to come first. Without that change, no method will work.
And it has to be a real change in attitude.
Believers , believe. Doers, do.
That covers just about everything mentioned on this post.
And it has to be a real change in attitude.
Believers , believe. Doers, do.
That covers just about everything mentioned on this post.