My husband passed away I'm having gaps, emotionally, when it comes to my husband's passing. He...

gdon39 · 46-50, M Best Comment

I’m sorry to hear that. My long time gf just passed away 10 days ago and left her heavy online spending to me and it is going to be rough.

Be strong find faith.

Mamapolo2016 · F

That must be so hard - to deal with everything at once. You might want to see a debt lawyer, if that's the problem. I hope your skies brighten soon. 🤗

ozgirl512 · 26-30, F

Uggh... I wish there was something I could say... Hopefully things will sort themselves out... Maybe seek some financial counseling... They may be able to show you a way out

And now edited.. Bloody Auto correct!😡

Jenny1234 · 51-55, F

I’m so sorry you have to go through this. There is a light at the end of the tunnel though. I promise

braveheart21 · 61-69, M

I know how you feel... Its just coming up to the first anniversary of my wife's passing... People say it gets easier with time... It doesn't... You just learn how to handle the pain and loss.. On top of coming to terms with the loss you have to cope with all the problems dealing with the paperwork from bank accounts to debts.. Government agencies... Local authority accounts... It seems never ending..

Mamapolo2016 · F

My suggestion is what others already said. Get financial advice BEFORE it all goes south. It’s overwhelming, but YOU will feel better.

The helplessness comes from waiting for the next blow from another discovery. Just watch who you give your sensitive information to. I strongly suggest a real live financial planning firm.

I am sorry your husband has passed. But YOU haven’t.

You can do this, with sound advice.

LadyBronte · 56-60, F

I am sorry to hear that. Wishing you all the best.

Doomflower · 36-40, M

My condolences.

Lloorrii2 · 46-50, F

Hey...i appreciate the warm wishes, but this post is from summer of 2021. Thanks

gdon39 · 46-50, M

I have the same situation and it was just 6 weeks ago. My heart is so broken and I’m now saddled with debt

darkknightt · M

I am lost of words, sorry I didn't know about your loss. I know you have a tough life already 🙁😢

SnowBlack · 18-21, F

I'm sure you'll find a way to make the most of your situation after a suitable time of mourning.

CuriousCouple25 · 51-55, C

Check into Debt Consolidation. Go online and look for them. Been there done that!

496sbc · 36-40, M

omg Lori i had no idea. when did this happen. now i see why u were not replying on kik

Djoc54 · 56-60, M

I understand. I hope you will be able to move forward. God bless.

Grvstu · 70-79, F

So sorry!

uncalled4 · 56-60, M

I'm sorry to hear this.

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

I am so sorry for your loss.