Anyone else here dealing with dementia As a care giver?

I co/ take care of my ex-husband's father whom I still call dad. His dementia is progressing. And it is getting more difficult since his wife passed away and I cannot be there full-time. He Is a great man and did much for many when he was capable. Between work and everything else I have to take care of, I've lost Myself in all this. But I'm gaining perspective and Getting some self-care. I need to be good for me, So I can take care of everyone else. But if there is anything I can do to make life a little better for him until we can decide upon home care or facility care, I'd like to try to make him as comfortable as possible and have the best care. Thank you in advance for your feedback , experiences, kind words and help. Its greatly appreciated.💗

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Livingwell · 61-69, M

You are a special person to take care of him like that. I have helped care for family that suffered strokes, etc. My mother in law is currently in a small home with dementia. So sad to see them go away. Please take care of yourself and ask for help when overwhelmed. 🙏🏻

LaLumieri · 51-55, F

@Livingwell Thank you for your kind words. He's very special to me. And the family really doesn't have anyone and since he was familiar with me all those years I thought I would be the best person to try to help. I appreciate Your regard towards me as well That's why I've been reaching out as a recent it's gotten a little too much to bear but I must keep going no matter what.