Has your relatives had family meetings because of your behavior?

I’ve had relatives calling me out for my behavior and giving my late dad a very hard time about chores and not listening to him. Even my siblings got on me for giving dad a hard time in the past. I wasn’t surprised they knew but for the whole family knowing that’s embarrassing. Everyone bugged me about helping it in the house and cooking for myself a lot more and I need to stop with my attitudes. Can’t believe my father would tell the family behind my back! Like why would my family hang up on me?