Have you ever had a parent that is/was good to you but an asshole sometimes?
My late father was a good dad. Always there for us and showed us love. He also put us in our place when we mess up and not afraid to call it as he sees it, even if the truth hurts. Sometimes he was an asshole to me. He insulted me because of my horrible dancing by roasting me to see if he would get a reaction outta me and NEVER apologized for it, he made me carry my own things. I mean I should but when I had WAY too much on my hands, he didn’t give me a helping hand. One time I had my purse and my books and he was helping me carrying my purchases and he was like, “Hey wait, why am I carrying this shit? It’s your crap, YOU CARRY IT.” I hd my hands full and he didn’t even land me a hand. My dads girlfriend’s daughter was like, “Wow that was rude. Sorry to say but your dad sounds like a jerk. Do you hate him sometimes? Do you really like your dad?”
I couldn’t answer because I loved my dad so much and so she helped me carry this stuff.
He told me to move when I was in his way. Well once in a while. I felt like he personally pisses me off so I can stand up for myself.
He took my toy away to see if I would stand up for myself but I never did. He said, “You’re just going to let me take your toy away from you? You better start standing up for yourself missy!!” One time I do best friends are standing up for themselves to kids that were picking on us. My dad yelled, “Why can’r YOU be like them?! Stand up for yourself!”
He aggressively called me weak for letting my male cousins disrespected me and I let them push me around. He got in my face.
He said he’s preparing me for life and that’s why he’s “mean” because people are meaner than him. He was like that with me the most because he knows I’m too nice, passive aggressive, naive, gets taken advantage of, let’s people push me around and I cry and complain when people are mean and I get told the truth when I asked. He said that I live in a fantasy for too long and he was getting me to see reality. I don’t think he fully accepted me as being autistic.
Love you daddy. rip 💖💖💔💔
Even though you were a jerk.
I couldn’t answer because I loved my dad so much and so she helped me carry this stuff.
He told me to move when I was in his way. Well once in a while. I felt like he personally pisses me off so I can stand up for myself.
He took my toy away to see if I would stand up for myself but I never did. He said, “You’re just going to let me take your toy away from you? You better start standing up for yourself missy!!” One time I do best friends are standing up for themselves to kids that were picking on us. My dad yelled, “Why can’r YOU be like them?! Stand up for yourself!”
He aggressively called me weak for letting my male cousins disrespected me and I let them push me around. He got in my face.
He said he’s preparing me for life and that’s why he’s “mean” because people are meaner than him. He was like that with me the most because he knows I’m too nice, passive aggressive, naive, gets taken advantage of, let’s people push me around and I cry and complain when people are mean and I get told the truth when I asked. He said that I live in a fantasy for too long and he was getting me to see reality. I don’t think he fully accepted me as being autistic.
Love you daddy. rip 💖💖💔💔
Even though you were a jerk.
22-25, F
