Please don’t take this personally but why do most people treat autistic adults like children?

I mean that needs to stop! They are ADULTS!!! Not children. Talk to them like adults. If they do something out of line and whatever, call them out! Cuss them out! They’re adults so they should be able to handle adult conversations and we shouldn’t have to apologize for cursing around them. Be blunt! If they throw a meltdown, don’t give a shit! If it’s children fine but adults COME ON! Don’t sugarcoat it. Tell the the hard, painful truth. They have to face it. Just because they’re autistic doesn’t mean you need to sugarcoat shit. I am so sick and tired of seeing or hearing people talk to autistic adults like children! I’m fed up! If they ask for the truth, give it to them straight and bluntly. If they’re very sensitive and get their feelings hurt, THEY NEED TO GET USED TO IT! They need to experience the hardships and rude people. GET USED TO IT AUTISTIC PEOPLE! You don’t get special treatment just because you’re “special needs”. Autistic children and teens need tough love too! Stop making excuses just because they have autism. Well, SOMEONE had to say someone! Don’t come at me!