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When I look at the abuse carried out by BPDs against their partners and realise it wasn't just me

I wonder if there is some truth to demonic possession. These stories of abuse never stop. Mine I could confidently describe as "evil".

If you have anyone in your life with BPD/NPD/ASPD I implore you to completely remove them from your life in all and any capacity.
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Getting away from these people is always easier said than done, though.
Therealsteve · 31-35, M
@HootyTheNightOwl Unfortunately some of these creatures trap you into a marriage before splitting, that can happen.
@Therealsteve Sometimes, the abuse is occurring even before things get to that stage, though.

Or maybe your choice, so to speak, is either a narcissist or a rapist.
Therealsteve · 31-35, M
@HootyTheNightOwl Then these are people who need help. There needs to be a charity that can give support to people to escape their BPD friend/partner/spouse. Which also educates people on the abuse they can expect to endure if they so choose to have anything to do with one of these cluster people.