A shout out to girls posting about mental struggles
You don't owe anyone here your responds, not in comments not in dm. If someone seems pushy / creepy or with ulterior motives you're 100% allowed to block them instantly.
Predators want you to think you owe them your time, your answers, your explanation and that's how the manipulation begins. They wanna save you and give you love and attention, while making you feel bad for rejecting them. You're guilt tripped in to keep contact until they know your personal info and they can meet you. And from there they guilt trip you to move in with them. And once they have you to themselves it's bye bye loving guy.
I've learned my lesson. No one who's kind would ever force you to respond, force you to agree with force you to give them attention or give them whatever they claim you owe them. Good guys take no for an answer. Good guys don't push stress force or demand. They respect your time, your person, and they want you to make you feel [i]comfortable[/i]
Predators want you to think you owe them your time, your answers, your explanation and that's how the manipulation begins. They wanna save you and give you love and attention, while making you feel bad for rejecting them. You're guilt tripped in to keep contact until they know your personal info and they can meet you. And from there they guilt trip you to move in with them. And once they have you to themselves it's bye bye loving guy.
I've learned my lesson. No one who's kind would ever force you to respond, force you to agree with force you to give them attention or give them whatever they claim you owe them. Good guys take no for an answer. Good guys don't push stress force or demand. They respect your time, your person, and they want you to make you feel [i]comfortable[/i]
31-35, F
