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๐Ÿ˜ช I did so much today and now I am resting with a sweet friend. She is awesome. She is more Canadian than Canadians.

Because of being busy, I kept failing to keep up with our plans until a couple hours ago.

It was my fault.

And yet she apologized. She apologizes every five minutes. I joke about it "I accept your apology which you make on my behalf"

"Right, apologize for me because I sure won't"

She giggles about it.

What a cutie pie.

She though needs to outgrow this. Too many wolves who would have her as a snack. It is a very obvious weak point.

I think she grew up being always blamed too much. I did too but instead of internalizing it, I went full fight response.

I hope one day she doesn't feel the need to suffer for peace or to please others.

I like friendships like this one ,simple, pure..just two women having a sleepover after getting bunch of nerd shit out of the way.
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SinlessOnslaught ยท M
About internalizing things. I think you successfully fought off a lot of internalization and I'm proud of you.

I have noticed some themes that seem like they may have a long history for you. The way you talk about being "enough" and about whether you're a good person.

From where I stand, anyone who has lived under the amount of pressure you've experienced, and still chooses to be loving, turns "enough" into an irrelevant equation โ€” it's beautiful.

Even when your choice to be calm and gracious can be interrupted by anger, I think that adds depth. Some people never learn to feel anger at all, or they displace it. You feel it, you direct it, and you reserve the ability to turn it off and continue to love and care. That's profound of you, Mimi.