Forced Psychological Eunuch

How many guys out there whose wives are in their 40s, 50s, on up, that refuse to have sex anymore? They hold the threat of divorce if you look elsewhere and refuse to allow you any outlets for sex even demand that you do not masturbate.
Women did hear these stories!
If a guy cheats the first thing they do is hold it against you even though you have a sexual drive greater than hers.