LordBarbossa · 36-40, T
@OlderSometimesWiser Thank you. I honestly feel that way too. But I still feel selfish just thinking about it
@LordBarbossa I can understand feeling that way but my wish for you is that you make the move despite the feeling. You deserve a life of peace and happiness.
LordBarbossa · 36-40, T
@OlderSometimesWiser If I can find a house with enough outside space for my cat, and a cheap rent, I will. I don't see that happening, but I'm keeping my eyes peeled in case it happens.
It would be selfish. There's absolutely no denying that. But... sometimes being selfish is essential for self-care or even self-preservation. In those cases, being selfish does not make you a bad person. It gives you new and more opportunities to be there for others who appreciate and deserve it more instead of breaking down and not being able to help anyone at all. And this sounds like one of those cases.
ThePatientAnarchist · 61-69
Come to Canada. There is a guest room for you in my house while you look around and decide how to adjust. Also it gets almost as cold and dark here as where you live, in the wintertime.
Also I am so sorry you have had these experiences
Also I am so sorry you have had these experiences
LordBarbossa · 36-40, T
@ThePatientAnarchist I have considered Canada in the past actually.