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AmbivalentFriability · 26-30
I have a hard time believing that people could like me. I work on it by remembering that I have a lot of qualities that I would appreciate in another person, I am kind to others, and that it's unrealistic to assume that I am actually completely unlikable. Everyone is liked by someone, even awful people. And if someone isn't sincere in the niceness they're showing me, that's on them. It not stupid to think someone might think I'm worth niceness or kindness. Not my fault some people are full of shit. Better to appreciate kindness and be wrong about people sometimes, than to always assume people are jerks and miss out on it all the time.
ihavenoone · 31-35, F
@AmbivalentFriability I think that's better than to overthink. But it is sad knowing people are not sincere. But we have different ways on how we cope. But remember not everyone will like us but it is not our fault. We are not living to please everybody. We just need to be ourselves wether they like it or not. I'm just good in advising you know but I'm suck with my self.