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When I joined this site I thought it would be filled

With interesting honest people with a good heart and critical thinking ability. I came here hoping to find loveand meaningful self expression and lust. I was hoping it was a little more like The Experience Project. I was hoping even to find hope for the future in this site.

Well, years ago met a woman here and she left the site and we then drifted apart. I met some people who were intellectually interesting, but I have since learned they are liars. I have made some friends here but most are a tiny bit lacking in critical thinking skills and we seem to be drifting apart. Most if not all the lust people I have communicated with are thieves and liars trying to steal mine and others money and information. Some people have very clearly been agents of political oppression trying to soe seeds of deception, I foolishly thought some were regular people and tried to reason with them.

Some people have crudely called me a liar or verbally laughed at my most painful experiences. I’m not perfect like all my fellow real users but I have only intentionally lied on a poll post about partners (because I thought it would make seem cooler) I was lower on the list. Aside from that one lie every thing I say is based on my experience the experience and wisdom of my elders, my unique critical thinking skills and facts I am exposed to.

I, as a perfectly imperfect human being get angry at the undue suffering in the world 🌍 and the people who cause it. I said something on somebody’s post about horrific nonsensical violence in the Middle East, and maybe it was of base, but if your religion is responsible for ethnic cleanings and the mass murder of children and you don’t actively stand up to this behavior or at least have the decency to change your religion, how is that different from being in cohoots?! Some people have developed this dangerous mentality that people who have been innocent victims in the past are always innocent. Mass murdering children is not an act of an innocent party, and standing by and allowing your distant relatives to act like monsters makes you complicit.

People have developed another two dangerous Ideas, ‘guilty party is always guilty’. ‘People don’t matter identity’. That latter is the latest and worst in the long line’us vs them’ ideology. This kind of thinking has lead to diluted thinking and bigotry.


What I want even now want is a world safe for everyone or realistically as many as possible and a woman to share everything I with whom wants the same thing.

Oops I almost forgot to mention that the biggest discovery I made here was most of the people just want a laugh. At you at me at anything and everything. Everything is just a joke to most of the people here. What kind of person thinks the lives of others is a joke? What kind of person thinks bullying is a joke? What kind of person thinks racism is a joke? The mass murder of children is a joke?!?

I don’t know why I’m here anymore.
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Primnproper · 56-60, F
I’m not sure anyone coming here hoping to find a love connection is a good idea unless you have patience and are good at reading between the lines.
All I will say is I have met some wonderful genuine people that have become firm friends even outside of this site but there are plenty here who still play games, are not honest about why they are here and will never be.
For me I worked out that you have to take your time, hold back until you determine whether someone is genuine or not and questions and in depth chats do that because the fakes always slip up there eventually. Look for the red flags because they will be there.
Most importantly protect yourself first always. Being honest doesn’t always mean leaving yourself wide open to those who will take advantage.
Take care of yourself.
Spectra · 26-30, F
Sorry that this site isn’t all you though it’d be and I really do hope you find what you’re looking for

One thing I disagree with is what you said about religion. Most if not every religion has the extreme side of the coins. The practitioners who exploit it for violence and oppression under a banner of faith. I don’t think that means those who practice the same religion except peacefully should abandon their own beliefs. If anything it makes it that much more important.

I don’t the violence in the Middle East is about religion. It’s about a select group of people with a targeted approach that weaponizes religion to indoctrinate disenfranchised young men for power, money, resources, and influence. They are on a course that’s been set out for years and don’t care about right or wrong. It’s less about religious groups and more akin to a gang war except on a more larger scale. And the legacy of colonialism and breakdown of traditional political structures have only contributed to ongoing instability and violence.
For me, this is my interactive distraction from reality. If I talk to someone through DMs, it's fine and I can hold a real conversation - unless it is someone who makes me nervous or I genuinely feels I have nothing of value to add to the conversation, and then I cant type 5 words together that make sense.
I don't ever think to come here to share what I believe to be true and real and expect anyone to give any notice. And when they do its often to tell me I'm wrong, without offering anything real to discuss. That gets very old and causes me to hate this place.
Sinnerman · 41-45, F
@nonsensiclesnail I completely understand! It’s like that with many sites… just keep doing you and right folks will gravitate. I’ve noticed there’s a lot non humans on this here internet lol
@Sinnerman I e seen this. Not as many non humans as others, but then, block a lot of them. Sex seeking bots make me feel gross.
Perhaps you should lower your expectations, just a bit. We're just people, and sometimes people disappoint. It really isn't such a bad place. I'm hopeful that you'll find your niche.
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
online interactions often lack the depth and intimacy of in-person relationships. While you may form connections online, it's best to keep your expectations realistic and understand that genuine friendships and relationships are more likely to develop through face-to-face interactions.

The only way to really enjoy this place is to have no expectations from anyone
Greyjedi · M
@Jenny1234 love that last part.
Jenny1234 · 56-60, F
@Greyjedi it’s true
This is SW, and not EP. I understand EP was different, and better in many ways. But here ye are in SW. There are lots of really nice people here. But beware, there also be lions, tigers, dragons and trolls....
Sinnerman · 41-45, F
I hope you’ll be able to find what you’re seeking 💜
Lostpoet · M
I never wanted anything from anyone there are people on here that completely destroyed my personal life and for what?

I don't actually know if it's from people on here but weird sht started happening around the same time I started posting.
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