Do you like unexpected touch, or do you prefer to know when physical contact is coming?

I like expected touch. Had too many hands laid on me for prayer and whatever against my will growing up and I'm weird about people being in my space now.

Unexpected touch from someone who I already know is in the room is fine, and in some cases wonderful.

But if I were to be touched when I thought I was alone, my "street smarts" as a former New Yorker would kick in!

I need to know before hand . They may fill out these forms in triplicate and mail them to me asap . It may be approx. 10 minutes long and no longer .

I like secret touch and I'm not talking like necessarily dirty stuff but giving me a quick hug or squeeze when no one is watching but we are in a crowded place let's me know that despite all of the noise you are thinking of me.
I don't like a lot of PDA or big showy mushy stuff.

I have hyper arousal which means Im always on alert. Plus all my years of martial arts training makes me react to unexpected things violently even when I don’t have warning.

I love it all, as long as it’s from the right person otherwise I don’t want to be touched much.

If I already have a relationship with the person, then I welcome unexpected touch. Otherwise I don't touch, and I don't welcome being touched.

So I am upgrading to tackle hugs.....also you may have to fight me to let go :D

Hugs always welcomed .. even spontaneous ones

I need to know or at least get a warning. 😳
My reaction might be more than you bargained for. 🥴

Preferably 24 hours notice in writing, but failing that, unless it's family, ask first.

I need to know it's coming. I need someone in my space first. Touch my face first.

Unexpected touch puts me in a weird space.

I do not like surprised touches.

I like it unexpected and I like for the guy to just touch me wherever he wants instead of having boundaries

Depends on who is touching and where I am at!!

Physical contact is always coming.

There.

Now you know ✌

If a speeding bus, truck, car or train 'contact' none is welcome...

Of course, axes and wood chippers and the like

No