The idea of soulmates

I think a lucky few find someone that, at that given time, seem made for each other. But we all constantly change, and it’s work to change together. If we don’t put forth that effort, we will drift apart over time. I think soulmates are an illusion as you put it.

I don't think there is a "one" who fits perfectly.

I think there are a few who fit 80% at any age.

But we all change as we get older. Are you the same person you were 5 years ago?

So even if you met the one today, in 5 years you would be different people.

That is the challenge of longer term relationships - keeping the love alive even when changes will happen.

I think some people definitely find someone that they want to be with and they put the work in to keep their love alive. But are they meant to be? Destined? Maybe, maybe they're just lucky. I sure haven't met mine and find it improbable that it exists for me.

After being single at a certain age, you start to understand it's not a dream. A lot of people suck and you're lucky if you can even find a friend.

The person that your soul knows and is inclined to have that soul conversation is your soulmate. You can only see it through the eyes of your soul . They are for real and it is the only place place your can rest there is no deciet.

Illusion... You can certainly find people who are a nice fit... But soul mates implies there is a soul and also implies there is a plan to match up

i don't know. i went to a psychic once and she told me my soul mate died, but his spirit was leading me to someone like him.

No such thing as a soulmate. There was an article in The Onion. "New Soulmate Better Soulmate Than Old Soulmate,"

I believe in them I have one ❤️isn’t my wife either

It's a ridiculous ideal that someone trumped up because it sounds "romantic".

Even if you do follow spirituality - you have to admit that your vibration is constantly changing and shifting... and the people that you attract to yourself are ebbing and flowing, too.

How can you really expect one person to remain constantly at the same vibration level as you are emitting when you don't remain static from day to day.

Nah it’s all a load of crap 🤣


We just love the idea of it in our heads.