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Can somebody tell me, how to unlove someone? How do I detach myself from someone that has been part of my life but is making me feel unwanted and doesn't even care? I'm the only one waiting for replies and wanting attention, while he doesn't even realize that I need him. Please help me~
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LadyGrace
Been there, done that. I had to realize that it really wasn't even about me. People have different preferences and that's okay. That's all it is. The minute you start taking it personal, is why you'll keep hurting. Don't make the mistake of grieving over the person, when the real problem is you're grieving over something you [b]thought[/b] you had! Time to move on to someone who will love you and appreciate you for who you are. You deserve so much more! Just be glad that he showed you exactly who he was and that you should believe him when he gives you all the signals that he is emotionally unavailable and he always will be. That helped [b]you[/b] out! Saves a lot of time and hurt. Just think if you had tried and tried even more and the harder you tried, the less you got out of it. If it was meant to work, it would work and if he was supposed to be the one then he would have let you know. I know it hurts, but we have to face reality so we can heal, right? Good thing you didn't marry this man. If he treats you this way now, just think how disrespectful he would be if you were married to him and that would be a real catastrophe. When one door closes, another will open. I hope you feel much better soon and start the healing process. If you need me, I'm all ears. You can PM me. How do you let go? You tell yourself the [b]truth[/b]!!! Not what you WISH it was. 馃槈
馃尮馃 One thing that will really help you, trust me on this, is vitamin B12. It comes the nerves.
Mariee26-30, F
@LadyGrace Ohhhh, thank you for sparing your time replying on my post <3
LadyGrace
@Mariee Mariee.....I'm no one more special than anyone else. Everyone is important here. I'm glad I saw your post and could reply. I hope things will get so much better for you. No one deserves abuse.
Mariee26-30, F
@LadyGrace I am hoping to feel much better too. I need to be okay
LadyGrace
@Mariee And you will be, as long as you refuse to be abused and stay away from abusers and toxic people, completely. There are also some good self-help books and videos out there. Look up Noah Elkrief. He has some self-help videos on every subject that are free to watch and he's the best in the country and he has changed many a life.
Mariee26-30, F
@LadyGrace I am trying my best to stay away from toxic people in my life.
LadyGrace
@Mariee Read the rest of my statement cuz I added something to my last reply to you. You must keep working on yourself and no matter what, loose [u]complete[/u] contact with abusers and toxic people. That is so very important. It is crucial. Seek out positive people to hang out with.
Mariee26-30, F
@LadyGrace Thank you so much for your good advices~
LadyGrace
@Mariee Any time. I just want to see you happy. Everyone deserves to be happy.
Mariee26-30, F
@LadyGrace You are a good person, I guess.
LadyGrace
@Mariee You guess? 馃槀 Yeh. I've always tried to be very good to people. 馃槃