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Can somebody tell me, how to unlove someone? How do I detach myself from someone that has been part of my life but is making me feel unwanted and doesn't even care? I'm the only one waiting for replies and wanting attention, while he doesn't even realize that I need him. Please help me~

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Pretzel · 61-69, M

wish you could take a pill but the truth is you'll probably always have feelings of some kind

think of it as an addiction - an addict can quit cold turkey but often as that need for something they know isn't healthy

you just have to stay away and keep occupied - the busier you are the less time you can think about him

Mariee · 26-30, F

@Pretzel I am busy actually, I have two jobs but the f with this feelings. I just hate being in this situation and could do something about it.

Pretzel · 61-69, M

@Mariee I get it - when ever you get the craving - do yourself a favor and remind yourself about the toxic times - sometimes we have a tendancy to romanticize relationships and overlook the things that were bad.

Mariee · 26-30, F

@Pretzel The worst thing is that I am in a relationship with him and even if I know that I have to leave, I can't find the strength to go and break it up with him.

Pretzel · 61-69, M

@Mariee are you safe? physically?

if not, tell someone. make a plan. escape.

Mariee · 26-30, F

@Pretzel I am physically safe, I just can't imagine breaking up with him.