It's not the finish that matters
Some people think harder is better. Faster. Rougher. Get in, get it done, move on.
But anyone who’s paying attention knows,
it’s not about pounding the point. It’s about knowing where to touch, how long to linger, and when to slow down enough to feel the reaction.
There’s an art to timing. To pressure. To knowing when to tease and when to commit.
You can tell when someone’s just going through motions…versus when they’re actually present.Hands steady.Eyes open.Listening for the smallest shifts.
That’s true in bed.And in conversation.And in how you treat people you claim to care about. Anyone can rush to the finish.
Not everyone knows how to make the middle unforgettable.
Yes, I'm rambling.
But anyone who’s paying attention knows,
it’s not about pounding the point. It’s about knowing where to touch, how long to linger, and when to slow down enough to feel the reaction.
There’s an art to timing. To pressure. To knowing when to tease and when to commit.
You can tell when someone’s just going through motions…versus when they’re actually present.Hands steady.Eyes open.Listening for the smallest shifts.
That’s true in bed.And in conversation.And in how you treat people you claim to care about. Anyone can rush to the finish.
Not everyone knows how to make the middle unforgettable.
Yes, I'm rambling.
