The thought of my husband being alone breaks my heart
He said he doesn’t want to remarry but I still think I gotta find my replacement asap.
31-35, F
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4meAndyou · F
SF...YOU are not in charge of finding his next love...that will be a MUTUAL thing between HIM AND the next person who touches his heart. I KNOW you WANT to be part of it...but you can't FORCE him to have those feelings.
He has those feelings for YOU.
And when you are gone, he will be destroyed, emotionally. It will take years for him to recover from your loss.
Make a video. USE the video to tell him what sort of person you hope he will find, and then allow HIM to make his own choice...WHEN he is ready. WHEN he is healed inside.
He has those feelings for YOU.
And when you are gone, he will be destroyed, emotionally. It will take years for him to recover from your loss.
Make a video. USE the video to tell him what sort of person you hope he will find, and then allow HIM to make his own choice...WHEN he is ready. WHEN he is healed inside.
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
@4meAndyou This is partly me being facetious and trying to use humor to cope lol
I know all of that and we have had this hard conversation. He knows that I just want him to be happy and not alone. I’m not trying to rush the process or anything.
But this is one of those things that I still feel unsettled about and I’m talking about it here to keep from bringing it up to him again since I don’t think it will serve a purpose to him.
I know all of that and we have had this hard conversation. He knows that I just want him to be happy and not alone. I’m not trying to rush the process or anything.
But this is one of those things that I still feel unsettled about and I’m talking about it here to keep from bringing it up to him again since I don’t think it will serve a purpose to him.
