The thought of my husband being alone breaks my heart

He said he doesn’t want to remarry but I still think I gotta find my replacement asap.

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SageWanderer · 70-79, M

I can honestly say he doesn’t need you to find a replacement. Besides being heartbroken he’ll be very vulnerable and that’s where the danger lies. Just make sure he has a support system and grief counseling and he’ll find his way.

SwampFlower · 31-35, F

@SageWanderer Hugs to you, friend. I appreciate your comment.

I think we all have as much support as anyone can have in this situation.

SageWanderer · 70-79, M

@SwampFlower Hugs back to you too. I’m speaking from my experience as the translation from caretaker to self care is a difficult one.

SwampFlower · 31-35, F

@SageWanderer I can’t imagine. I hope you are doing okay 💜

SageWanderer · 70-79, M

@SwampFlower I have my days both good and bad. Songs, pictures and even FB memories can trigger memories. Some bring smiles, other tears.