When you’re trying to get over someone you were deeply involved with and the relationship abruptly ended…..

What things do YOU do in order to move on?
Knowing and realizing you’ll never hear from them again (at least not in that context or realm); do you pretend they never existed? That it all was a farce? Do you find ways to hate them in order to move on easier?
Just curious what mind set methods, compartmentalizing you have done that helped you move on…
And the gut and heart wrenching fade?

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AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

I deal with the hurt and then i let it go and i dont give them another thought. I don't like reliving things so i push it from my mind and in time i think about them less and less. I focus on myself.

Kiesel · 56-60, M

@AngelUnforgiven how exactly do you “let it go”? I’m not grasping that very well

AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

@Kiesel i think that i'm different from most people. I dont let myself get bothered by a lot of things. I let it go by never looking back. If i let go, i'm done!