how can I keep my mind off my ex?
I broke up with him 3 months ago because of some abusive behaviour by him.
but I still love him and I miss him so much 💔
but I still love him and I miss him so much 💔
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4meAndyou · F
I am sorry to say this because of your pain, but I lived through the same thing...LONG before I signed on to SW. I no longer love or miss the ex, but I wouldn't have said the same if you had asked me in 2009.
Our minds play tricks on us when we are in pain. We develop selective amnesia. We can ONLY remember the love and the good times. We forget the abuse. We become so lonely we can only see the path backwards.
In my case, I even tried to reconcile with him. I discovered before the moving truck was unloaded that I had made a terrible mistake. He USED my stupidity as his one chance to get revenge. And he got it. Thoroughly.
Our minds play tricks on us when we are in pain. We develop selective amnesia. We can ONLY remember the love and the good times. We forget the abuse. We become so lonely we can only see the path backwards.
In my case, I even tried to reconcile with him. I discovered before the moving truck was unloaded that I had made a terrible mistake. He USED my stupidity as his one chance to get revenge. And he got it. Thoroughly.