Is love about effort or compatibility?

I think that's true. Compatibility does matter but it's effort that makes it last over time.

I agree

I don't like dualities, yet those two are apart of many.

I like that
But I think the best times are when things are effortless, they just come naturally

Both

Very true.💕

well said.

Loving someone is not an effort. But staying with someone you love requires effort ( responsibility)

This is a true statement

What about commitment ?

Nothing should ever require effort. Effort is the byproduct of being unhappy with the way things are. Love is not unhappiness.

Love is about sex

If it's really there on both sides very little effort is needed