Is love about effort or compatibility?

I believe compatibility keeps you, but effort sustains you. One without the other never lasts. Thoughts ?

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Gibbon · 70-79, M

If it's really there on both sides very little effort is needed

xoxo216 · 26-30, FNew

@Gibbon really well said. so you are believer of true love

Gibbon · 70-79, M

@xoxo216 I had it for the best 11 years of my life. See my profile

xoxo216 · 26-30, FNew

@Gibbon ohh, i am sorry about that, and since then you have been single?

Gibbon · 70-79, M

@xoxo216 Yes and failing to take care of myself very well. Been hospitalized twice since Vickie passed. I have no interest in any more relationships even my health was perfect. I feel lucky for the experience so few will ever have

xoxo216 · 26-30, FNew

@Gibbon i really wish to see you happy, any kids?

Gibbon · 70-79, M

@xoxo216 Thank you and no. She had two. Her daughter keeps in touch with me.

xoxo216 · 26-30, FNew

@Gibbon ohh ok. i will send you a dm

Gibbon · 70-79, M

@xoxo216 You're going to have to say more than you did to get a reply. Those are the kind of dms most of us delete.

xoxo216 · 26-30, FNew

@Gibbon ohh now i get you