How could you view love as less intimidating?

Whether it be love, dating, etc I get just terrified I'm not enough. It's hard believing someone who has chronic social anxiety (me) , could be a good catch or match for anyone 🥺
I just wish I could view it all as less intimidating...

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Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F

One thing I'll say is make clear boundaries and keep them and don't ignore any kind of red flags- this is not to make you more anxious, because if you are aware and can take a control of your own life you feel less anxious about going forward.
They're also green flags if the person isn't pushy, give you plenty of time to be comfortable, never see them go off on anyone, they listen as well as speak, they want to know about you and not just spend your time talking about themselves, and the like