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Do you think many men equate love with S*x?

Not all ...but many?

I remember many men here at SW said they believe 85% of men roughly, try to enter a relationship, for mainly sex. It saddens me because many men and I will not be on the same wavelength. I need friendship and a true loving Bond FIRST.
Do you think many also feel they love someone but Really are feeling lust, if they are getting frequent s*x?
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faery · 31-35, F
Women are ruled by estrogen, men by testosterone. When we come together for differing initial motivations, we end up sharing hormones via kissing and other activities. Not a lot of hormonal exchange, just enough to bridge the gap. Men develop more of a soft, loving side and women's sex drives go up. Hopefully, we meet in the middle. The love bond happens gradually for both during courtship.
RedBaron · M
@faery To put it simply, men use love to get sex, and women use sex to get love.
faery · 31-35, F
@RedBaron The point is: Both need both but love remains when both get too old for sex. Biology rules us all but love sustains us in the end.
RedBaron · M
@faery Indeed