Being poly is hard sometimes

Other poly people don't just fall out of the sky. Finding and maintaining these relationships can be hard.

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zonavar68 · 56-60, M

Finding and maintaining even a normal 'twosome' relationship is hard. I've given up trying. 8-)

I've chatted to women who say they have poly connections but I can't see how it works. It's like they have a day with one person, a day with another person, but there aren't any threesomes or moresomes.

I'm reading The Wheel of Consent book by Betty Martin to try and understand my own sexuality more (currently I feel everything I know about mine is a furphy).

OogieBoogie · F

@zonavar68 Not all people in a poly need to be sexually active partners. Some are just romantic partners, some are are there for the familial love and closeness.
Poly's are all uniquely different.

Rosie95 · 26-30, F

@zonavar68 @zonavar68 we work because we all share a home. It gets far less complicated after that

SnipingSvelte · 26-30, F

@zonavar68 yup anything you don't know anything about or have personal experience with is a furphy. like vaccines for example 🙄

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@SnipingSvelte I know quite a bit about the fake vaccines for Covid that don't work

SnipingSvelte · 26-30, F

@zonavar68 riiiiiight did your own research huh? brought your skills up to geneticist level with a few youtube videos. wish i had that skill 🙄

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

@SnipingSvelte I'm content with my choices re my own personal Covid response. It's not anyone else's to judge.