For those who didn't experience love growing up ..

Do you feel that affects how you view love now?

Do you believe you don't deserve it because of the lack of it as a child?😢💗😟

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Whyme · 46-50, M

I don’t buy this to me it goes along with the daddy didn’t love me and the everyone is a narcassist b.s that gets thrown around by weak people tha don’t want to accept any accountability

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Whyme I do think if you had next to no love at all as a child, that's neglect and stays with someone as trauma. Unfortunately some kids get the opposite of any love..just violence or hate. It's because of that foundation for years I don't feel I even deserve love. Even though I want a romantic parner, I think, how could they ever stay with me if they find out my background?
I do agree some people throw around the word narcissist .

Whyme · 46-50, M

@Coralmist I think there’s no black and white every situation is different and effects different to different people but also feel labels and the blame train don’t help anyone and some buzz words like I mentioned are way overused and accountability is a thing of the past im sorry you feel tha way and I’ve been watching you get some horrable vehicle advice lol