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basilfawlty89 I think everyone deserves love. But not everyone has to love everyone.
And it is more important to be able to love than to be loved. The two can be linked but they don't depend on each other , like most people tend to believe.
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Coralmist Yes. I am not really certain that "conditional " love is wrong. It would depend on the nature of those conditions and the extent of its passiveness which is incredibly disproportionate these days with actions for most people.
It is not even their own fault alone to be honest.
It is how we built our world and how we all contribute to it and benefit from it ,in ways that are inferior compared to the alternative potential. We know things should be better. We know this because in the depth of our depths we can experience a great deal of love/good/compassion...etc And we can (most of us) refer to it in certain situations.
But we humans like comfort and avoid change, and the cost that comes with change since short term gains are prioritized over long term ones. And there is so much uncertainty if we are to change economic and social structures that aren't self-driven.
