I want to receive touch.

I tend to give small gifts frequently. Not grand gestures, but if I go to the store I'll pick up a chocolate bar or a special drink or something to give them. Or maybe I'll see a mug or cup with something I know they would like on it.

I do try to adapt what I give over time, whether it be gifts, touch, praise as I figure out what the other person thrives on and what they might consider too much so I don't overdo it.

that is so weird you posted about this. it has been on my mind for days. i am a gift giver. and you are right, it affects every aspect of your life.
i am still getting rid of gifts i bought for people and the relationship fell apart. not to mention the costs.

Love languages are a mystery to me. I've so much doubted my understanding of everything about relationships since my second one ended because I ended it in 2018 due to how intensely negative and toxic it became.

Having no romantic connection since then just reinforces the emptiness of that space in my cognitive functioning.

My love language is to care about friends and family, make calls or visits if one of them is ill or has a hard time.

Touch

Random acts of kindness

Acts of kindness.

We express the love language we desire.

Time, Affirmation, Service.

It appears to be affirmation. But I hate attention.

Im a feeder