Is it your fault when someone falls in love with you?

I think what I'm really asking is this:

Is it our job to dull our shine, so other people don't catch feelings? Or should we just shine, and navigate those situations as they arise.

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4meAndyou · F

No...it's not our fault. AND we need not try to dull ourselves so that others don't "catch feelings"...but I will say that in the past, when someone has developed a horrible crush on me, I FELT horribly about it. I never knew quite how to handle having to hurt someone.