How can someone intimidated by love...

Lower their view or expectation of it?

I recently heard author Mel Robbins say something like we make love this huge thing ( something to that effect), and how love is really about working together as partners.

I feel love is something that is too GOOD for me in my mind, so I get panicked at the thought of dating. How could we change the perspective of it, so that it feels attainable?