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orioninthenight · M
@tenente exactly
Reflection2 · 41-45, M
@OlderSometimesWiser Without question? is it even possible, especially when one isn't young ?
@Reflection2 It was for me. No angst, no overanalyzing, no overthinking. Those would have been red flags for sure. That didn’t mean we had no work to do on the relationship. But a foundation of love was there so we were willing to do that work.
Mellowgirl · 31-35, F
I think young love is for the most part very intense and heightened emotions. That being said you can experience this later on in life.
But I do think when it's right, it's calming, reassuring and mostly provides a sense of stability.
I do think that everyone's experience is different but it's provides you with what you need or didn't know you were missing.
But that's just my experience of what I think healthy love is.
But I do think when it's right, it's calming, reassuring and mostly provides a sense of stability.
I do think that everyone's experience is different but it's provides you with what you need or didn't know you were missing.
But that's just my experience of what I think healthy love is.
Reflection2 · 41-45, M
@Mellowgirl Thanks for sharing your thought.
riseofthemachine · 41-45, M
See people get mixed up with the word God .
I tell you why .
Some people thinks it's about God and themselves that makes them happy (love) but it's actually the other way around .
It's about God and others .
If you go with God and yourself . You end up being very unhappy . A lot of unhappy toxic thinking comes in .
It's about God and others .
That's how you feel love.
It's nothing to do with self care and all of that .
It's important to take time out for yourself .
See when some people think about God and themselves , at some stage in there lives whether they realise it or not gets comfortable in there misery .
The freedom comes from amends .
Amend everything . Then you know love
I tell you why .
Some people thinks it's about God and themselves that makes them happy (love) but it's actually the other way around .
It's about God and others .
If you go with God and yourself . You end up being very unhappy . A lot of unhappy toxic thinking comes in .
It's about God and others .
That's how you feel love.
It's nothing to do with self care and all of that .
It's important to take time out for yourself .
See when some people think about God and themselves , at some stage in there lives whether they realise it or not gets comfortable in there misery .
The freedom comes from amends .
Amend everything . Then you know love
come2gether · M
exexec · 61-69, C
Good question. What I felt for Lynn when we started dating at 15 was infatuation. I have no idea when it changed to real love, but one day when we were in college, probably 18 or 19, I realized that I loved her so much that all I wanted to do was make her happy. That meant that I had to let her date others when we were apart. I hated it, but I knew it was what she needed. I can't explain the feeling.
NoThanksLeon · M
ImpeccablyImperfect · 51-55, F
orioninthenight · M
Hanginginthere · 31-35, M