How do you know someone still loves his/her ex?

I feel like my entire relationship is a lie.
It hurts a lot.
My BF still contacts his ex knowing it hurts me.

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I think my bf still loves his baby mama. He talks to her so kindly and is willing to bend over backwards for her, but doesn't extend that same courtesy to me.

IntelligentGirl2 · 26-30, F

@DearAmbellina2113 I feel you.
In your case it's maybe because they have kids together. But it's hard to undergo this. You feel like a third wheel. I checked the message he sent to his ex and same. I noticed the different attitude.