Have you cheated on your wife?

@Ducky If both of you approve and open, I don't think it's cheating.

@exexec I appreciate that and agree. But some people don't approve of open marriages because they consider it cheating if you're sleeping with someone other than your spouse.

@Ducky I understand their opinion from a moral standpoint, but I think it is cheating if you do it behind your spouse's back.

@Ducky as long as it’s within the rules of the openness then no.