What is ur top three love languages
If u believe them what are ur top three
Mine is:
⏰🤗😄
Quality time, physical touch, and words of affirmation
Mine is:
⏰🤗😄
Quality time, physical touch, and words of affirmation
22-25, F
This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »
Philth · 46-50, M
Clear, ubambiguous communication, clear, unambiguous communication and clear, unambiguous communication.
Playing games of reverse psychology like "I don't want you making a massive fuss for my 30th birthday" screams of immaturity and lack of self belief. For me, it's a greased fast-track to disappointment, resentfulness, and worse: because it degrades the message to men that no means no.
Only once we've got that established, can we consider to considering further needs along this path.
Playing games of reverse psychology like "I don't want you making a massive fuss for my 30th birthday" screams of immaturity and lack of self belief. For me, it's a greased fast-track to disappointment, resentfulness, and worse: because it degrades the message to men that no means no.
Only once we've got that established, can we consider to considering further needs along this path.
Philth · 46-50, M
@zonavar68 no hard and fast rule. If birthdays are your big thing, then yes (obviously). If like many, birthdays are best kept low-key, then respect that too.
My ex clearly stated "I don't want you making a massive fuss for my 30th" which I now understand is very common ladyspeak for "I want you to make a massive fuss..." Sorry, but I'm not capable of that level of decoding and I try to treat my partners as adults, not children who don't know their own mind. Say what you mean.
My ex clearly stated "I don't want you making a massive fuss for my 30th" which I now understand is very common ladyspeak for "I want you to make a massive fuss..." Sorry, but I'm not capable of that level of decoding and I try to treat my partners as adults, not children who don't know their own mind. Say what you mean.