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I'm 28 and I like a 58 year old man...

I kinda adore him I think... I'm sad that I don't have anything to give to him, he doesn't learn anything when he talks to me... He's better at everything and I'm just a stupid little Lili for him I think...
He's happy and extroverted and laughing with others (also others in my age) but it's all about me when we talk and he's helping me but he doesn't have any gain from the interaction with me...

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Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F

@AngelKrish yes

Collegegirl23 · 26-30, F

@AngelKrish I find myself more connected to younger guys and we click more unlike with older guys who i feel have different ways and ideas

AngelKrish · 26-30, M

@Collegegirl23 younger guys are better at love making because they recover fast too...plus respects woman too

LookingIn · M

At some point he’ll stop being the older man and become an old man.
But different things work for different folks so why not?

Ryderbike

Oh he gains plenty. You have the magic of youth, the innocence that fades with age.

It’s very attractive.

Be happy

BiasForAction · M

Let him decide if he gains from interacting with you.

LillyJulia · 26-30, F

@BiasForAction How?

BiasForAction · M

@LillyJulia he chooses to spend time with you, silly

Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M

Thats probably not true... if he were he would not talk to you..
Lucky him by the way... I LOVE younger women🥰

MrGoodbar · 51-55, M

with the right older man, you will feel like you have something to give

Steve42 · 56-60, M

Human interaction may be his reward.

Amylynne · 26-30, F

@LillyJulia
This challenge do you have, is real and delicate. Unfortunately it will also cause men of that very particular age group to reach out to you. We could have a very good conversation in private about this, how it could work, and how it can fail! Welcome to SW

robb65 · 56-60, M

Sometimes it works. When my uncle was in his 50's he married a woman in her 20's and they stayed together until he died. They apparently got along a lot better than he did with his first wife who he divorced and remarried, and divorced again.

AlchemyFox · 36-40, F

What if you told him?

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LillyJulia · 26-30, F

@BernieDeVulva I never said anything about "wanting to do him". I said than I'm sad because I'm not able to talk to him on the same level he talks with others. I said that I would want to be able to interact with him in a way so that he would also have something from the conversation. When sex is the first thing you thought about after reading this post, then it says solely a lot about you...

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LillyJulia · 26-30, F

@BernieDeVulva OK, you don't seem to be capable of an intelligent conversation. I wish you a nice day and all the best for the new year. :) I really hope for you to become a less angry person. :)

Zeusdelight · 61-69, M

If you feel uncomfortable about that move away.

If he keeps on interacting with you, he is getting some benefit. If you are curious about what it is, or uncomfortable about it ask him.

dimfok · 22-25, M

Not only he does gain stuff from you, but do not put yourself down like that. Focus on your traits and undestand yourself better so you won't think of you as being ...a little Lili

nevergiveup · M

I had a friend that was 30 years younger than me. We was good friends but she looked to me more as a mentor or a father.

GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M

That's a solid retirement plan.

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LillyJulia · 26-30, F

@GeistInTheMachine I don't have a plan cause I don't know how to interact with him so that he would be happy to spend time with me

GeistInTheMachine · 31-35, M

@LillyJulia Pay a dating coach.

ninalanyon · 61-69, T

@LillyJulia [quote]I don't know how to interact with him so that he would be happy to spend time with me[/quote]
Ask him. If he is worth your time he will answer honestly.