How to feel that love is not too Good for you?

Ive felt love was just too GOOD for me for many years...I have read and heard others occasionally say it too. How can I ever find love and embrace it if I feel Its too good for me? And due to me having anxiety in my life , that will result in me having to decline social things with a guy, I feel how do I deserve love? This fear has kept me stuck a long time.
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ShadowWolf · 31-35, M

Fear of being hurt is how women end up alone in the end. Just because your past partners treated you like dirt, does not mean that baggage should be thrown on a new guy. Projecting these emotions and putting your walls up, is detrimental to success. It should not prevent you from getting into a new relationship. I just had to cut a girl off because of this, for example. A woman who is broken from their past, or is emotionally unavailable SHOULD NOT be dating, until they fix their mindset/heal.
It prevents everyone's time from being wasted and a lot of frustration for the guy.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@ShadowWolf I feel well, not whole...but a therapist told me once I might wait and wait longer , after already not dating for years, and still not feel whole... she said to just try it, as just getting to know someone, with no romance at first, to lessen my fear.

ShadowWolf · 31-35, M

@Coralmist Then if that is the route you are taking, you need to make that intention and that fact known to any guy you chose to date. Lest you waste their time. It wouldn’t be fair to a guy looking for something serious.