How to feel that love is not too Good for you?

Ive felt love was just too GOOD for me for many years...I have read and heard others occasionally say it too. How can I ever find love and embrace it if I feel Its too good for me? And due to me having anxiety in my life , that will result in me having to decline social things with a guy, I feel how do I deserve love? This fear has kept me stuck a long time.
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SW-User

Relationships are about survival and fulfilment of needs, human touch, sex blah blah. The Choice to not do life alone. Really you just need someone you can feel comfortable sharing your life with. Love has little to do with it and it may even develop once you're secure in the relationship.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@SW-User True...I get sooo nervous just thinking of dates, I decline, even if I like the guy. I feel I'll panic on the date, not live up to what they are used to, and look a fool. Maybe Ill just view it as you said, it could just be someone who I can share with over time.🌼

Punches · 46-50, F

@Coralmist how hilarious would it be though say you are out on a dinner date with a guy and you got nervous and farted super loud at the table?

GovanDUNNY · M

@Punches She is too sophisticated to do that

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Punches Id turn apple red😲