How to feel that love is not too Good for you?

Ive felt love was just too GOOD for me for many years...I have read and heard others occasionally say it too. How can I ever find love and embrace it if I feel Its too good for me? And due to me having anxiety in my life , that will result in me having to decline social things with a guy, I feel how do I deserve love? This fear has kept me stuck a long time.
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Punches · 46-50, F

I have been avoiding making this statement but I probably should. You are not getting any younger and as we age our chances of romance declines. Long story short if you are wanting a relationship you might want to get on the ball and take a chance and stop making excuses.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Punches Feeling for YEARS Im not enough, due to anxiety that made me hyperventilate, is not making Excuses. I do get we are getting older, and I know your point that I do need to take a leap of faith.

Punches · 46-50, F

@Coralmist Honestly though you are not missing anything because once the lustful phase of a relationship wears off it's basically just like any other friendship.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Punches Thats true, Im afraid of not being enough for love, but if I could view it as really mainly friendship rather than the scary LOVE, maybe it would lessen this fear. Thank you 🐞

Punches · 46-50, F

@Coralmist yeah I mean take a chance. Even if things don't work out you at least tried.