Always Thinking Any Love Interest Is Cheating

After being cheated on a few times already I am always in fear of the person I'm talking to sleeping with other people, sending them pictures, getting hickeys, etc. Like to the point where they could be going to a party and I'm terrified that they're gonna be with someone else. I don't think I'll be able to be in a healthy relationship while I'm like this. How do you get over this and let the past die?

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Tristan1230 · 36-40, M

This has always been a struggle for me as well. The best approach is to start off as friends and not rush into anything. Make sure you are clear with the other person about not wanting to rush into anything. If she moves on because she doesn’t want to wait, then she definitely isn’t the right person!