Always Thinking Any Love Interest Is Cheating

After being cheated on a few times already I am always in fear of the person I'm talking to sleeping with other people, sending them pictures, getting hickeys, etc. Like to the point where they could be going to a party and I'm terrified that they're gonna be with someone else. I don't think I'll be able to be in a healthy relationship while I'm like this. How do you get over this and let the past die?

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TexChik · F

Just be a little more diligent about determining the ethics of a person before you ask them out .

Spoiledbrat · F

There are guys who ask woman out solely because she's hot or they think she's hot. They don't care about anything else. Sometimes I wonder if some guys are aware that they are doing this or just don't care. Woman pick up on this. They also sell themselves short or don't set standards just in a different way. @TexChik

TexChik · F

@Spoiledbrat But choosing to ask out a woman that has no ethical compass or compassion is going to screw a guy over more often than not. Sometimes the easy yes isnt worth having.