It's a bit unfair

When we hear about people dying, people we didn't personally know, we think such a shame a person with dreams, with a future, or just a person died, without knowing them or anyome related to them we feel an unconditional sadness.
But when someone we love dies, someone we were connected to, we feel sorry that we lost their role that they had from our life. When our mothers die we think what am I going to do now without my mother?

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

durinsBane1983 · 46-50, M

that's life now i'm afraid, a lot of people have tragic things happen to them, which are unfair...i know of a few people in my past who had devastating things happen to them, good individuals as well who never deserved it.

on mothers, i often worry about the same thing, i am so close to my elderly mother and couldn't bare it if she left me, i don't know what i will do when that time comes, i think my life would be pointless at that point as my mother plays a major role in my life.