How would you feel if your therapist said this?

I was discussing dating and my intimidation with men. How I want to date but don't feel enough.. due to my issues. I liked she Said I don't need to heal all my Issues or be Perfect to date. That men will have issues too. But then She said "You have a lot of anxiety. You may always have it. It is who you are.. "
On one hand i get she meant to kind oF not be ashamed of my disorder. But on the Other hand it is not who I AM. It is a result of trauma and not truly me. I just let it go but not sure how to Feel...how might you feel?

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Dolimyte · 41-45, M

I think it was ment as, it's part of who you are, not it defines who you are. It seems like you were just being encouraged to radically accept that you are going to be anxious because waiting until you 'get over it' is an unrealistic goal.