Am I wrong

I’ve been in a relationship with this girl for 6 years I’m constantly doing everything for her and me and our daughter now I feel like a butler sometimes just catering to them all the time she never helps me cook clean or do anything expects me to handle out daughter everyday feed her dress her put her to sleep never once tries to help me at all and I work from 10 to 7 everyday and she don’t even have a job I support her my daughter and still she stays in her phone talking to her friends 24/7 she will do anything for then but always seems bothered by her own family i really don’t understand this am I wrong? Or idk honestly I just feel like I’m doing it’ll by myself and I still get disrespected and treated like I don’t do enough…..(sigh)

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Casheyane · F

Is she your daughter's mother or just a gf you have?

You can talk to her about your frustrations first. Ask her to share your burdens.
Let her share your responsibility.
If not, focus on your daughter.
You don't have to cater to the girl's every need if she doesn't contribute. Honestly, that's how you create a monster or a lazy bum.

Because if she has you to do all those things, then why in the world would she need to, right? It sucks but sometimes, being stern is actually a thing that could help people do better.

In the long run, a family is meant to help one another. And if she's just a gf, then it's your call to dump her.