@gingershuman he still doesn't believe me is the sad part

@gingershuman Why would the boss ask why you wanted to take a day off? No manager ever asked me that in my over forty year career.

@WillaKissing true.....but 20 years seems like a damn marriage.

@Notanymore I know I was married once for only 11 years, but I was in the Army 27 years, and both the wife and the Army tried to kill me. One figuratively the other literally multiple times. Thanks be to God above that I am still here.

@WillaKissing Amen to that.

@Notanymore
True. But consider looking at it from the other extreme of your analogy.
We shoudn´t hope for a long marriage when there is "love" but no more being in love.
If there is something better, it´s time to say good bye.
Not because the "other one".
Cos IMO staying for what is not the best for both is a worst betrayal to the nature of relationships than leaving.

@ElRengo fair point. It'll all work out the way it does in the end.

@Notanymore
Take it please with caution, is just the personal view I´ve learned after years of not so good experiences.
Not necessarily should be aplied to others.
It´s not only and perhaps not mainly about my own best interests.
I say.......be in love or leave.
So if a partnership or a job.

@CookieCrumbs I'm not indispensable. Just damn good

@Notanymore
They’ll figure it out without you. Don’t carry that burden of guilt if you have decided it’s time to move on.

It is really up to you on where you see yourself in the next few years.

If you are as good as you said you ar, wouldn’t you rather be compensated and appreciated for that?

@CookieCrumbs that's why I'm going

@Tres13 there will be beer.

To be sure To be sure@Notanymore

@SimplyLogicalDiscipline it's been 20 years here. Kinda feels like stepping out

@Notanymore high time you change

@SimplyLogicalDiscipline yeah...... I guess so.