I feel like this place resembles vanity.

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Take it from Martika- “[c=7700B2]
We all fall down like toy soldiers” [/c]

I feel like most people here just pretend to be perfect. No one is a rebel, rebels fall one day too. I wish more here would open up and stop portraying themselves as invincible. This is the reason I like to use other sites but it seems most people on social media are vain. Sorry to say that but one day we will all hit the grave and turn into bones.

And I have to act fake myself just to survive being on this site.

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MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F

Perfection is one thing I'll never claim. My ego is in check and my heart is humble. I speak about the not so pretty parts of my life, and not for attention, but in hopes they can help someone. For the life of me, i can't understand the need for fandom on the internet, or the whole validation thing . I'd rather be a misfit vs a cliquey chick.

You did describe the [big]biggest[/big] portion of this site though. Gag me!

SW-User

Thanks, I just feel more people are aimed towards fakeness on here. Only a minority are true like you and some others. I’m getting too old for vanity and pettiness. I just want to surround myself with the real stories and real folks. @MoonlightLullaby

MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F

@SW-User

I completely understand, but you have several choices here.....

You can develop a small circle in which you trust and stay in your lane with those people. Plus block all the people whose personalities take away from a happy experience and learn to keep scrolling.

Or you can stay in your current status which solves nothing and still be venting about your wishes/feelings until the doors on this place close.

Or you can leave, which we both know doesn't last long for you.😉

SW-User

You’re right about all that. It’s best I keep myself more occupied after work so I won’t be on here too long. That’s what I can do for now. @MoonlightLullaby

MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F

@SW-User True, and less time is better for you.

But you need a game plan if you want to get your "friend time" in or else you'll still be stuck seeing the wrong people in that short span of time you decide to devote here..
..... just repeating the same cycles .

Perhaps I'm not conveying what I wish to 🤔

SW-User

@MoonlightLullaby I don’t know when my friends will be online and not busy. I remember on Ep I had a special time to log on and chat with a friend. It doesn’t matter I barely chat with people on here. We interact on posts but that’s about it.

MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F

@SW-User I never even mentioned chatting. The point I'm trying to make, is to eliminate everyone you don't like and/or cause you all this durress with a block. Therefore, whenever you log in, if not your close friends, at least there will be good people to interact with. You can't keep doing the same thing and expect positive results. 💡

SW-User

It’s not friends or non friends. I’m saying that “most” people here seem to act fake. It gets boring after a while. I keep waiting for this site to attract more people that are interesting and not snobby but that’s not happening. It’s fine, I’m going to enjoy life offline more and more. @MoonlightLullaby

MoonlightLullaby · 41-45, F

@SW-User I won't hold my breath on that one😉

SW-User

@MoonlightLullaby now I have soo much shiiit to do today and no time to care about sw. Haha,